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Friday, September 25, 2009

Sometimes not being in control is the most beautiful thing in the world...

I am not normally a Tyra Banks fan, however I caught a re-run of America's Next Top Model and she said this phrase to a girl who was sent home...
"Sometimes not being in control is the most beautiful thing"
Tyra,I couldn't agree more! We get so caught up in trying to keep it all together, we want people to think we are confident, sucessful and independent. Don't get me wrong; confidence, sucess and indepence are all goals we should work towards but at the end of the day we are all a disaster! Maybe your job is falling apart or the lack of even having one has you down, maybe you are in a bad relationship or have not found the right person or maybe you feel that you are in over your head in the lifestyle you chose. Maybe you are nervous about what the future holds- whether it be graduation, moving a new start or just the unknown. The unknown is something that I struggle with everyday. I am quite the planner. I like to have timelines, calendars and spreadsheets of where my life is going. There is absolutely nothing wrong with planning. It is good to look to the future and to have goals... I believe the problems arise when we are not flexible in our plans changing to what God has in store. We need to just let it all go. Let go of the control, forget about trying to keep it all together because to be honest we are incapable of doing it on our own! We were never meant to be in charge. Stop the juggling act-life is not a circus! So is this control easy to hand over? Not at all even though it should be seeing that God is the only one who can get us through this crazy life. For whatever reason we let our weaknesses keep us from letting go. It's funny how God's plan works to strengthen these weaknesses if you let it. Sometimes these are hard lessons learned through pain but if strength is found in the end then give me pain! One thing we must keep in mind about giving over control is that it can not be given over in peices. God doesn't want to manage different departments of your life no, He wants to govern your whole life. Let's be honest, things always run better with one person charge. So, I hope you will embark on this journey with me and just let it all go because sometimes not being in control really is the most beautiful thing.

14 comments:

Lindsee

Well written, Mrs. Jasper. Letting go is by far the most beautiful thing. It may be cheesey, but our life is a blank canvas! Love you.

Jalei & Lane

Well said.

Megan

Thank you, Jen. I needed to be reminded of this. Hope things are going well for yall.

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